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Welcome to The UK based Swinging podcast brought to you by 'Biproperswingers'. It is our hope to give a very honest insight into the swinging world within the UK. Our names are Paul and Charlotte and we are pretty well known on the scene. If you’re swingers I bet you can find us. With a combined time on the swinging scene of around 21 years we have a substantial amount of experience and knowledge of how it all really works. Our hope is to dispel some of the myths about the lifestyle and help spread the good experiences we all have had. We feel society as a whole doesn't really know that much about this very special, hedonistic community and we hope to enlighten a lot of minds about what it truly is all about! Real current social attitudes towards sex and the scene itself, we want to spread awareness with the aim of educating at the same time. Real interviews with other genuine swingers and those to who have transitioned into and out of the lifestyle. We'll take you on a very special journey inside the clubs around the country and the adult industry providers to share what is really out there including that of the usually unspoken fetish scene. We'll give honest and un-bias reviews of the scene, from the sex toys, shops to holidays. We'll do our upmost to provide the best advice for people who are curious and want to try it, but sadly won't or can’t, due to the fear of being judged. We were both once newbies and still occasionally get nervous. As we don't want to give a prejudiced perspective on anything we discuss, we will very openly examine the up's and downs, as well as the positives and negatives. We hope that the knowledge we've gained through our own personal experiences within the community; be it the bad ones or the out of this world amazing ones, we want to enable people to open their minds instead of closing them off. Exploring a wide range of different topic's like 'what is a unicorn?', 'The sheer level of respect you get in the clubs', 'The power is usually within the hands of the woman', and many, many more. We are completely new to doing podcasts, so our material may be a little bit all over the place to begin with, but I'm sure with practice, we shall soon get into the swing of things. https://biproperswingers.wixsite.com/biproperswingers Disclaimer: The Ukbiproperswingers podcast, website and blog associated with it are the opinions and beliefs of Paul and Charlotte's only. (And this covers any of the guests featured on any of the episodes too.) The information shared on the podcast isn't professional advice and Paul and Charlotte cannot be held responsible for any negative actions or consequences which occur from trying any activity after listening to the podcast.

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UK swingers lifestyle

Podcast 010 - We're all just filthy really: alternative lifestyles unite.

August 26, 2024 • Charlotte and Paul • Season 1 • Episode 10

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Pleasures with the school girl night – listen to us discuss the principles of a theme night and how the main stream part of society – aka the vanilla world lost their mind when they found out people within the lifestyle like to take part in dress up/role play. Considering Charlotte found herself being hounded by trolls for days on end about how much of a pervert she is; listen on to how we've become humbled by our recent experiences- and how our own kink levels have truly humbled us. But even humbling experiences should be welcomed too! It's all a continuous learning curve remember; listen on and enjoy how we face the harsh truths that come with learning that we may not be as kinky as we had previously presumed but it's all awesome baby! The kink community may frown upon swingers for its view regarding consent; and certain stereotypes; so let's discuss what we think about it all.

Pleasures (The adult club) link is below

https://pleasures-in-kent.co.uk/

We briefly spoke about penthouse too, including the epic monkey business travelling weekender – which we managed to do (only from the Saturday – to the Sunday) just two weeks before swingathon. We discuss the new but very promising monkey business travelling weekender's and then pretty much spend the entire hour and 20 minutes discussing what happened at the UK'S biggest adult lifestyle festival.

For the Monkey business travelling weekender - link is below.

https://www.monkeybusiness1.com/

For swingathon

https://swingathon.uk/

Would society be more open if we were met with less hostility and discriminatory actions in the social world? Considering the sheer level of sensationalism within the main stream media and the level of disinformation on our social media platforms is crazy; let's get some real truth out there. It's just couple swapping apparently. (When it obviously isn’t) Being their true authentic selves; a bridge being built to unite all the different communities. We briefly touch upon conflict and the politics; and how safe the alternative lifestyles are. With the 1st ever content creator festival being held by the one and only HOB events; founded by Onyx and Vargr – who also do O&V events; come and have a listen into how it all went down! We were incredibly lucky to have access to the OnlyFest side, as well as the swingathon and Fetfest sides – so grab a cuppa and listen on to hear our side of the kinky story. From wax play on the hottest day of the year (at that point in the year) to the raw truth behind the infamous 50 woman only orgy

For information on the HOB (content creators) events, link is below,

https://www.houseofbathory.co.uk/

For all of the social's of everyone we mentioned; head over to our Instagram for all of the tagged people. :)

Next episode will be published a lot quicker as it's half reordered already.

Exclaimer: We managed to record the swingathon piece two times – because 1) we ended up getting interrupted and 2) we loved swingathon sooooooooooo much this year, that we wanted to talk about it twice but it did mean that when it came to Paul editing it- it took him over 7 hours to complete it, so we can only but apologise if it is at times a little confusing; plus the sound quality jumps at 39 minutes in – then bounces back to normality a few minutes after. Ever so sorry for this sound issue, we can only improve for the future :)

“The conflicts within consent – across the different ethically alternative nonmonogamous relationships.” blog post is coming real soon and will be available on the conflicte